‘Love’ has been a subject for various poets and lyricists, who often find that it is an emotion that defies being expressed through words. Still, so many tried to define it, and many more will attempt in the future. Before I self learnt Jyotisha, I had a clear understanding how to define love, wherever there is devotion, there is love and vice versa. And then came the music. Now, this love can also be self-love or love for anything right from your work, passion, person or animals. But it is easier said than done. However, thanks to Jyotisha I can certainly put this: there are few parameters in a natal chart that can help to find what you are seeking. There are 60 deities in a Shastiamsa (D60) chart. D60 is a divisional chart in Jyotisha (for detailed understanding you can refer to the book Jyotisha for Noobs). But for a moment, forget Jyotisha, consider these 60 deities as 60 parameters and out of these 60 parameters there are only 6 parameters that can find love or the emotion or definition of love. So the probability is 6/60, which is merely 10%. Examine your D1 chart to determine which of these parameters are currently available. Thus, it’s simple to see how rare this would be among the world’s population. And it is something you can neither fake nor force nor conspire to shove yourself into another person’s life. It is because every deity has a theme, and it will not allow it. We have sufficient epics of love. And if you want to know whether you are fortunate enough to experience such you can read the natal charts particularly the shastiamsa deities or the degree the planets are in. And even if you don’t know anything about Jyotisha or don’t even believe in it. There is a reason dating was never a part of matchmaking, let us be honest with ourselves, no one can know a person just through a 15-30 minute conversation or even months, everyone will put their best foot forward. The easiest way was to understand the charts of both suitors in depth and match them. Unfortunately, we have more incompetent astrologers who are more talkers than doers, and as a result, it has created an unredeemable nuisance. However, there is another method that is beginner friendly but doesn’t assure results, which is music or rhythm of life. Once you find your rhythm, it will automatically match with the same people or person.